Men only make grand gestures when smitten or in trouble. Most men in a new relationship make nice gestures and hope to sweep you off your feet. If you have been in a relationship for a while and there are no obligatory holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries then what is the grand gesture all about. Question to ask yourself would be. What have they done? Many men seem to be under the impression that a grand gesture will get them out of trouble. Sometimes it does sometimes it does not. I would rather a man make grand gestures because he cares and knows they would be nice instead of as "Get out of jail card."
"Actions speak louder than words" this is a great saying to apply to all relationships. If your mate says one thing and does another which one would you tend to believe? The empty words or the actual gesture. This is a hard lesson to learn in relationships. Most people would love to believe everything their love one tells them. However, do you believe the words "I love you" or the actions whether they are cheating on you, beating on you, or positive actions of respect and courtesy. I tend to believe the actions over the words. Eventually the actions and the words will be the same message. We hope.
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